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[danuv]

I think Tomas needs to go back on lithium. Things are getting bad with him. He used to have really bad manic periods and those, while hard to deal with sometimes, weren't having a serious impact on anyone's life. Now he's having rage issues. I think it's coming from his depression. Before we had kids when he started getting really depressed he would just withdraw but since he has to help with the kids and all he just ends up furious over nothing and all I can get from him is that he is miserable and wants to die. There isn't a tangible reason for it all right now... we are getting acceptable amounts of sleep, he and I are doing ok, we aren't having any major money issues... but still he's miserable. *sigh* I don't know what to do with him. I can't leave him with the kids for five minutes before he's cussing and pitching a fit because one or the other is whining or Rhiannon unplugged his computer or something like that. Grrr. Arg. This just isn't good for him, or the girls, or me. Rhiannon already has a problem dealing with her anger well... she's in this phase where every time she gets mad she slaps, bites, hits, or kicks her sister. Grand eh? Issy needs to get big enough to defend herself. Poor baby.

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